My Experiments in the Practice of Everyday Life

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A happier version of schadenfreude.

What a happy day! I went to Barnes & Noble to see Bass Ackwards and Belly Up, the fabulous new young adult novel written by my sister and her writing partner.

There it was, in all its glory, sitting face out on the shelf. Of course I had to take several copies and drop them on various display tables, to catch the eyes of browsing shoppers.

Yes, I’m prejudiced, but what a good book! It shifts among the lives of four best friends, and is so engaging, with such sympathetic characters—and because I know how much work went into it, seeing it in final form is very exciting.

Schadenfreude is the enjoyment of other people’s misfortunes, but is there a special term for the happiness you feel for other people’s successes?  There should be. It’s a much nicer emotion.

  • http://www.monicaricci.typepad.com Monica Ricci

    I believe one of the true measures of a person is whether they can be genuinely and sincerely happy for the good fortune of others, even when things are not going well for themselves. Congrats to your sister and to you for sharing in her joy!

  • http://profile.typekey.com/rstadler/ Russell

    A term that I’ve heard used as the opposite of scadenfreude is “mudita” which can be translated as rejoicing in others’ good fortune.

  • http://profile.typekey.com/meeblax/ wylie.conlon

    The opposite of schadenfreude should actually be sadness at other people’s good fortune.