What Started Me Thinking

  • "Whoever is happy will make others happy, too." Mark Twain.
  • “There is no duty we so much underrate as the duty of being happy.” Robert Louis Stevenson
  • "Martha, Martha, thou art careful and troubled about many things: But one thing is needful: and Mary hath chosen that good part, which shall not be taken away from her." Luke 10:41-42
  • “Imaginary evil is romantic and varied; real evil is gloomy, monotonous, barren, boring. Imaginary good is boring; real good is always new, marvelous, intoxicating.” Simone Weil
  • “What a wonderful life I’ve had! I only wish I’d realized it sooner.” Colette
  • “It is easy to be heavy: hard to be light.” G. K. Chesterton
  • “A man’s first care should be to avoid the reproaches of his own heart.” Joseph Addison
  • “Best is good. Better is best.” Lisa Grunwald
  • “Order is Heaven’s first law.” Alexander Pope

Happiness Theories I Reject

  • Flaubert: "To be stupid, and selfish, and to have good health are the three requirements for happiness; though if stupidity is lacking, the others are useless."
  • Vauvenargues: “There are men who are happy without knowing it.”
  • Eric Hoffer: “The search for happiness is one of the chief sources of unhappiness.”
  • Sartre: "Hell is other people."
  • Willa Cather: “One cannot divine nor forecast the conditions that will make happiness; one only stumbles upon them…”
  • Alexander Smith: “We are never happy; we can only remember that we were so once.”
  • John Stuart Mill: “Ask yourself whether you are happy, and you cease to be so.”

This Wednesday: Tips...to find good books.

Every Wednesday is Tip Day.
This Wednesday: Tips...to find good books.

If you’re a serious reader, how do you find recommendations beyond reviews of what’s just been published?

1. My friend Jesse Kornbluth runs a fantastic site, Head Butler, crammed with recommendations for books, music, movies, and products. The site has steered me to a lot of great reading, like Maupassant’s Bel-Ami and Maugham’s Cakes and Ale.

2. Persephone Books reprints forgotten classics of the 20th century (mostly novels), and their list is dependably terrific. The lengthy book descriptions on their website are a big help if you feel like reading a certain kind of book—about the lives of three cousins, say, or about a village during World War II. The books are beautiful, too—dove-grey with gorgeous endpapers and matching bookmark.

3. I love the magazine The Week, especially the weekly “The Book List,” where a different author recommends six books. The Week also provides an “Also of interest…” round-up each week: “great works in new packages” or “books about baseball.”

4. Slightly Foxed is a wonderful British quarterly about books that have survived the test of time. (“Slightly foxed” describes a volume discolored by age.) Each issue is a collection of very short, charming essays by writers on their favorite books. I always end up with a good list—that’s how I discovered Angela Thirkell. (A Slightly Foxed subscription also makes a great gift for bookish friends.)

5. Keep a running list of books you want to read, and be sure to include a note on why you want to read them, because you will surely forget.

6. Push people for recommendations, and add the suggestions to your running list. This is particularly helpful if you want to venture past your usual fare.

7. Nabokov, I think, said that “All good reading is re-reading.” For the last few years, I’ve been re-reading the classics that I read when I was too young to appreciate them properly, like War and Peace, Moby Dick, and Great Expectations. And you know what? They’re GREAT. War and Peace is as addictive as Stephen King’s The Stand (a book I stayed home from work to finish).

8. I’ve never had good luck with the lists people post on Amazon, but the reader reviews of individual books are often useful.

Remember: whether you’re going on vacation, to the dentist, or on the subway, always take more reading material than you expect to finish.

Comments

There are some good lists on Counterpunch:
http://www.counterpunch.org/nonfictrans.html
http://www.counterpunch.org/top100nf.html
http://www.counterpunch.org/novels06212003.html

Also, for half-forgotten children's books, try this brilliant site, which will track them down from your hazy description for $2:
http://www.loganberrybooks.com/stump.html

When looking randomly for things to read, I used to go over the Seminary Co-Op in Chicago and try to buy less than 3 books off of the Front Table.

Their website now has the same feature in an equally beguiling format.
http://semcoop.booksense.com/NASApp/store/IndexJsp?s=storepicks

These are all newish titles, of course. They also occasionally publish lists of what members are reading and this unearths many forgotten gems.

librarything.com

so Happy to find someone else who likes Persephone Books. I keep pushing their web site on friends and the reception is usually a tepid, "oh that's nice."

The ChickLit forums (www.chicklitforums.com) are full of women (and men) who love words and books, and we are always ready to give recommendations for just about any kind of reading type!

(Just discovered your blog this morning; I'm really enjoying it!)

One of my friends turned me on to Goodreads.

Great for keeping a list of books you want to read and getting suggestions from friends on what they are reading.

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