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Secrets of Adulthood.

  • The best reading is re-reading.
  • Outer order contributes to inner calm.
  • The opposite of a great truth is also true.
  • You manage what you measure.
  • By doing a little bit each day, you can get a lot accomplished.
  • People don’t notice your mistakes and flaws as much as you think.
  • It's nice to have plenty of money.
  • Most decisions don't require extensive research.
  • Try not to let yourself get too hungry.
  • Even if you think they're fake, it's nice to celebrate Mother's Day and Father's Day.
  • If you can't find something, clean up.
  • The days are long, but the years are short.
  • Someplace, keep an empty shelf.
  • Turning the computer on and off a few times often fixes a glitch.
  • It's okay to ask for help.
  • You can choose what you do; you can't choose what you LIKE to do.
  • Happiness doesn't always make you feel happy.
  • What you do EVERY DAY matters more than what you do ONCE IN A WHILE.
  • You don't have to be good at everything.
  • Soap and water removes most stains.
  • It's important to be nice to EVERYONE.
  • You know as much as most people.
  • Over-the-counter medicines are very effective.
  • Eat better, eat less, exercise more.
  • What's fun for other people may not be fun for you--and vice versa.
  • People actually prefer that you buy wedding gifts off their registry.
  • Houseplants and photo albums are a lot of trouble.
  • If you're not failing, you're not trying hard enough.
  • No deposit, no return.

Happiness theories I reject.

  • Flaubert: "To be stupid, and selfish, and to have good health are the three requirements for happiness; though if stupidity is lacking, the others are useless."
  • Vauvenargues: “There are men who are happy without knowing it.”
  • Eric Hoffer: “The search for happiness is one of the chief sources of unhappiness.”
  • Sartre: "Hell is other people."
  • Willa Cather: “One cannot divine nor forecast the conditions that will make happiness; one only stumbles upon them…”
  • Alexander Smith: “We are never happy; we can only remember that we were so once.”
  • John Stuart Mill: “Ask yourself whether you are happy, and you cease to be so.”
  • G.K. Chesterton: “Happiness is a mystery, like religion, and should never be rationalised.”
  • Solon: “Let no man be called happy before his death. Till then, he is not happy, only lucky.”

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A short, brilliantly fun book about how to be happy and successful at work.

BunkoI just finished Daniel Pink’s new book, The Adventures of Johnny Bunko. It’s a career guide written in the form of a comic book.

It’s brilliant.

Ever since I read Scott McCloud’s mind-blowing book, Understanding Comics, I’ve been intrigued with comics as an approach to convey lots of complex information in an elegant, accessible way. I never read comics myself, but McCloud convinced me that this format had extraordinary possibilities.

I’ve always been interested in how people process information. Each of my books – Power Money Fame Sex, Forty Ways to Look at Winston Churchill, and the others -- has used unconventional ways to make my arguments. But I never thought to try using comics, even after reading McCloud.

Well, Daniel Pink’s book does this, and with huge success. In a short, fun read, he sets forth his guide to how to be happy and successful at work. Writing the book in a more conventional style would have taken far more words, been less interesting, and less memorable.

Reading this career guide in comic-book form made it ridiculously easy to remember the main points:

1. There is no plan.
2. Think strengths, not weaknesses.
3. It's not about you.
4. Persistence trumps talent.
5. Make excellent mistakes.
6. Leave an imprint.

This is great advice for life in general, not just making career choices. In fact, several of Pink's points play a big part in my Happiness Project -- "Enjoy the fun of failure," "Be Gretchen," why I left law for writing, etc.

Even if – like me – you don’t read comics, The Adventures of Johnny Bunko is a terrific book. And apart from the sound advice it offers, it’s fascinating to see comics used as a teaching device.

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I love getting the chance to meet people from blogland in person. Yes, they really exist! In human form! Yesterday I had coffee with Jonathan Fields, who has the great blog, Awake at the Wheel. I was keeping my resolution to "Show up," and as always, I was glad I did.

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Gretchen;

I also just finished Dan's book. Writing in a comic-book fashion is different and new to me, but very effective. I think I may pass it along to a select few students at my school. Great suff...

Mike

I'd bought,browsed (as a guilty pleasure) and continue to enjoy McCloud's book based on your recommendation. Pink's book sounds like I could actually read it at my desk and call it business~! Do you have a referral link to buy?

Thanks so much for doing the vetting for your readers; we trust you and enjoy it when you trust yourself.

Thanks for the recommendation. I'll have to pick it up!

Also- great blog! I look forward to becoming an avid reader of your blog:)

Just click on the title of the book in my post, and it will zip you into Amazon.

Or go to your local indie bookstore! All bookstores big and small need our love!

Understanding Comics should be recommended reading for anyone interested in the creative field, from writing to the fine arts.

Looks like I need to check out Daniel Pink's book.

Both books sound worthy of a read. I'll be picking them up, or delivered. I doubt I'd find them here in Korea.

I would also recommend Art Spiegelman's Maus books. These texts, especially the first, reintroduced me to "comics" and how they can construct history. I should read Pink's book before I teach Maus again.

Talk about the power of a good blog--I purchased Bunko 2 days ago on your recommendation--and then read quite a bit about Pink himself and his other writings while at the same time cross-referencing jonathan field's blog 'asleep at the wheel' (whom you met in NY recently) in which he discussed how to get little things (ie, a brief mention in a blog, for instance) very big very quickly and written about in major media venues. (Or is that vice versa?) Anyway, here it is today in the NY Times, currently the most emailed about article of the day, the fascinating subject of the 'new' status of right brain thinking in the corporate community, and a fat plug for Pink's newish book. I'm almost surprised that your blog wasn't mentioned in this article as well!

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  • To be happier, you need to think about FEELING GOOD, FEELING BAD, and FEELING RIGHT, in an atmosphere of growth. Clunky, but it works.

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What started me thinking.

  • "Whoever is happy will make others happy, too." Mark Twain.
  • “There is no duty we so much underrate as the duty of being happy.” Robert Louis Stevenson
  • "Martha, Martha, thou art careful and troubled about many things: But one thing is needful: and Mary hath chosen that good part, which shall not be taken away from her." Luke 10:41-42
  • “Imaginary evil is romantic and varied; real evil is gloomy, monotonous, barren, boring. Imaginary good is boring; real good is always new, marvelous, intoxicating.” Simone Weil
  • “What a wonderful life I’ve had! I only wish I’d realized it sooner.” Colette
  • “It is easy to be heavy: hard to be light.” G. K. Chesterton
  • “A man’s first care should be to avoid the reproaches of his own heart.” Joseph Addison
  • “For the love of God and my Sisters (so charitable toward me) I take care to appear happy and especially to be so.” St. Therese
  • “Best is good. Better is best.” Lisa Grunwald
  • “All severity that does not tend to increase good, or prevent evil, is idle.” Samuel Johnson
  • “I must do the work that I am best suited for…” Edward Weston daybook
  • “Order is Heaven’s first law.” Alexander Pope
  • “How slight and insignificant is the thing which casts down or restores a mind greedy for praise.” Horace

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