What Started Me Thinking

  • "The best way to cheer yourself is to try to cheer somebody else up." Mark Twain
  • “There is no duty we so much underrate as the duty of being happy.” Robert Louis Stevenson
  • "Martha, Martha, thou art careful and troubled about many things: But one thing is needful: and Mary hath chosen that good part, which shall not be taken away from her." Luke 10:41-42
  • “Imaginary evil is romantic and varied; real evil is gloomy, monotonous, barren, boring. Imaginary good is boring; real good is always new, marvelous, intoxicating.” Simone Weil
  • “What a wonderful life I’ve had! I only wish I’d realized it sooner.” Colette
  • “It is easy to be heavy: hard to be light.” G. K. Chesterton
  • “A man’s first care should be to avoid the reproaches of his own heart.” Joseph Addison
  • “Best is good. Better is best.” Lisa Grunwald
  • “Order is Heaven’s first law.” Alexander Pope

Happiness Theories I Reject

  • Flaubert: "To be stupid, and selfish, and to have good health are the three requirements for happiness; though if stupidity is lacking, the others are useless."
  • Vauvenargues: “There are men who are happy without knowing it.”
  • Eric Hoffer: “The search for happiness is one of the chief sources of unhappiness.”
  • Sartre: "Hell is other people."
  • Willa Cather: “One cannot divine nor forecast the conditions that will make happiness; one only stumbles upon them…”
  • Alexander Smith: “We are never happy; we can only remember that we were so once.”
  • John Stuart Mill: “Ask yourself whether you are happy, and you cease to be so.”

The happiness possibility of comics.

UnderstandingcomicsEver since I read Scott McCloud’s brilliant Understanding Comics, I’ve been intrigued by the possibilities of comics. He made an outstanding case for how the comics form allows writers to do things that they couldn’t otherwise do, and his book shows how well this could be done.

I’ve always been fascinated by the ways in which form can be used to shape the way that readers learn. My own books use different structures to hammer my thoughts home in a vivid way.

I hadn’t thought about the possibilities of comics for my own writing, however, until recently. At the recommendation of a friend, I read the Sandman comics, but had decided that comics just wasn’t a form that appealed to me.

Then I read Daniel Pink’s fabulous career-guide-in-comics-form, The Adventures of Johnny Bunko. It showed how effectively the non-fiction comic could be used to persuade readers. In a very few number of pages, Daniel Pink was able to make his points clearly, engagingly, and very memorably.

Through the magic of the internet, one thing led to another, and two weeks ago, I ended up having a conversation with Daniel Pink about comics and how he’d decided to write his book in comics form.

During our conversation, he gave me the most thrilling idea: I should include a comics section in THE HAPPINESS PROJECT! Yes, absolutely, I must do that!

I went into a kind of psychological shock at the thought. I desperately wanted to do it – but how? I couldn’t imagine how to bring it about. I envisioned a very short section, between 10-16 pages. But how? What would the comics section be about? Who would draw it?

“Ummm….so how would you find an artist?” I asked Daniel Pink. He gave me several good ideas. I followed them. Last week, I met with an artist who seems great – though we’re still in the very early stages of seeing whether this will work.

This means a lot of work, hassle, expense, and time, but also, I hope, tremendous fun. I’m so happy to be undertaking this experiment.

A few years ago, it would never have occurred to me to try something like this, and I could feel all my resolutions grinding together to make this kind of experiment possible:
“Force myself to wander”
“Read at whim”
“Follow my interests”
“Reach out”
“Only connect”
“Embrace novelty and challenge”
“Ask for help”
“Make time for projects”
“Look for opportunities to collaborate”
“Make books”

Resolutions! After all this time, I’m still astonished on how effectively they work to make me happy, whenever I faithfully keep them. I think again of the 1764 journal entry of Samuel Johnson, who, as an inveterate resolution-maker and resolution-breaker, is one of the patron saints of those who make resolutions:

“I have now spent fifty-five years in resolving; having, from the earliest time almost that I can remember, been forming schemes of a better life. I have done nothing. The need of doing, therefore, is pressing, since the time of doing is short. O GOD, grant me to resolve aright, and to keep my resolutions.”

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Comments

A great idea to make a comic corner, at my site I also dedicate some 'space' to 'comic', with 'Joke of the Day' and the Daily 'Funny Quote'.

BTW I do understand that you are interested in writing, you might consider to have a look at 'Snoopy's Guide to the Writing Life' it features hilarious Snoopy 'At the typewriter' Comic strips by the famous Cahrles M. Schulz paired with 32 essays frm best-selling writers responding to his or her favorite cartoon.

All the Best,
To your Happy Inspiration,
HP

P.S. also have a special Blogspot dedicated to writing you can find at: http://hpshappywriting.blogspot.com

I thought I did not like comics until I read Maus I and II by Art Spiegleman. It seemed to me that if something as heavy as the Holocaust could be depicted in comic form, then it was, indeed,a very flexible form.

Other comic/graphic novels I've enjoyed:
Fun House by Alison Bechdel
Perselopis series by Marjane Sartapi
Lynda Barry's Marlys books

Great stuff!

By chance stumbled into your blog today - but, then again, how else would it happen?

I followed a similar, albeit less involved, path a few years ago and read everything I could get my hands on about "happiness". The best part was trying to explain the "why" to others!

Keep it up! I love the idea of a comic book! Good luck!

How interesting. I just emailed you about this Pearl Before Swine strip about catching happiness.
http://www.comics.com/comics/pearls/archive/pearls-20080511.html

Also check out Garfield Minus Garfield. It's hilarious. You can't do it with just words.
http://garfieldminusgarfield.tumblr.com/

I can't wait to read the Happiness Project comics!

Lynda Barry is the bomb, and she has just published a new book on writing, which I am aching to read.

The great thing about resolving to do comics is that it gives you permission to go to Comic-con, Gretchen--which is packed full of people doing their Happiness Projects, whether it's comics, or dressing up as a character, or playing mad crazy video games, or worshipping movies. It's just a blast.

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