What Started Me Thinking

  • "The best way to cheer yourself is to try to cheer somebody else up." Mark Twain
  • “There is no duty we so much underrate as the duty of being happy.” Robert Louis Stevenson
  • "Martha, Martha, thou art careful and troubled about many things: But one thing is needful: and Mary hath chosen that good part, which shall not be taken away from her." Luke 10:41-42
  • “Imaginary evil is romantic and varied; real evil is gloomy, monotonous, barren, boring. Imaginary good is boring; real good is always new, marvelous, intoxicating.” Simone Weil
  • “What a wonderful life I’ve had! I only wish I’d realized it sooner.” Colette
  • “It is easy to be heavy: hard to be light.” G. K. Chesterton
  • “A man’s first care should be to avoid the reproaches of his own heart.” Joseph Addison
  • “Best is good. Better is best.” Lisa Grunwald
  • “Order is Heaven’s first law.” Alexander Pope

Happiness Theories I Reject

  • Flaubert: "To be stupid, and selfish, and to have good health are the three requirements for happiness; though if stupidity is lacking, the others are useless."
  • Vauvenargues: “There are men who are happy without knowing it.”
  • Eric Hoffer: “The search for happiness is one of the chief sources of unhappiness.”
  • Sartre: "Hell is other people."
  • Willa Cather: “One cannot divine nor forecast the conditions that will make happiness; one only stumbles upon them…”
  • Alexander Smith: “We are never happy; we can only remember that we were so once.”
  • John Stuart Mill: “Ask yourself whether you are happy, and you cease to be so.”

Happiness quotation from Samuel Johnson.

SamueljohnsonJohnson: "As the Spanish proverb says, 'He who would bring home the wealth of the Indies must carry the wealth of the Indies with him,' so it is with travelling, –-a man must carry knowledge with him if he would bring home knowledge."
--Boswell, Life of Johnson

Not a day goes by that I don't think about this line from Johnson.

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Comments

Gretchen,
Thank you for the link to 43 folders. What a treasure trove for the serial procrastinator - like me!
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Heather

I must admit that I'm a little puzzled by the meaning of this quotation. I think the Spanish proverb means something like, "Even good fortune can have unanticipated drawbacks". But I'm still scratching my head over Johnson's additional comment regarding knowledge.

You certainly are a big fan of old Sam Johnson! Great quote.

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@Alex C.

My interpretation is that the first quote means you must be able to carry the wealth of the west indies in order to bring it home (literal).

sam's addition, is that the same goes for knowledge. You must be able to carry the knowledge with you, if you want to bring it home. In another words, if you are not open to it, or prepared for it, you will get nothing out of the knowledge gained by traveling.

At least that's my take.

http://yinvsyang.com/

you sure know a lot of Sam Jo. - inspiring quote i must say. Thanks for sharing.

I believe it means you must have awareness to learn to learn more!

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