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My Twelve Commandments
- 1. Be Gretchen.
- 2. Let it go.
- 4. Do it now.
- 7. Spend out.
- 9. Lighten up.
- 11. No calculation.
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- Just drop me an email. The first part is grubin (then that familiar symbol). The second part is gretchenrubin (then a period, then a com). Sorry to be convoluted--because of spam.
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Secrets of Adulthood.
- The best reading is re-reading.
- Outer order contributes to inner calm.
- The opposite of a great truth is also true.
- You manage what you measure.
- By doing a little bit each day, you can get a lot accomplished.
- People don’t notice your mistakes and flaws as much as you think.
- It's nice to have plenty of money.
- Most decisions don't require extensive research.
- Try not to let yourself get too hungry.
- Even if you think they're fake, it's nice to celebrate Mother's Day and Father's Day.
- If you can't find something, clean up.
- The days are long, but the years are short.
- Someplace, keep an empty shelf.
- Turning the computer on and off a few times often fixes a glitch.
- It's okay to ask for help.
- You can choose what you do; you can't choose what you LIKE to do.
- Happiness doesn't always make you feel happy.
- What you do EVERY DAY matters more than what you do ONCE IN A WHILE.
- You don't have to be good at everything.
- Soap and water removes most stains.
- It's important to be nice to EVERYONE.
- You know as much as most people.
- Over-the-counter medicines are very effective.
- Eat better, eat less, exercise more.
- What's fun for other people may not be fun for you--and vice versa.
- People actually prefer that you buy wedding gifts off their registry.
- Houseplants and photo albums are a lot of trouble.
- If you're not failing, you're not trying hard enough.
- No deposit, no return.
Happiness theories I reject.
- Flaubert: "To be stupid, and selfish, and to have good health are the three requirements for happiness; though if stupidity is lacking, the others are useless."
- Vauvenargues: “There are men who are happy without knowing it.”
- Eric Hoffer: “The search for happiness is one of the chief sources of unhappiness.”
- Sartre: "Hell is other people."
- Willa Cather: “One cannot divine nor forecast the conditions that will make happiness; one only stumbles upon them…”
- Alexander Smith: “We are never happy; we can only remember that we were so once.”
- John Stuart Mill: “Ask yourself whether you are happy, and you cease to be so.”
- G.K. Chesterton: “Happiness is a mystery, like religion, and should never be rationalised.”
- Solon: “Let no man be called happy before his death. Till then, he is not happy, only lucky.”
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What started me thinking.
- "Whoever is happy will make others happy, too." Mark Twain.
- “There is no duty we so much underrate as the duty of being happy.” Robert Louis Stevenson
- "Martha, Martha, thou art careful and troubled about many things: But one thing is needful: and Mary hath chosen that good part, which shall not be taken away from her." Luke 10:41-42
- “Imaginary evil is romantic and varied; real evil is gloomy, monotonous, barren, boring. Imaginary good is boring; real good is always new, marvelous, intoxicating.” Simone Weil
- “What a wonderful life I’ve had! I only wish I’d realized it sooner.” Colette
- “It is easy to be heavy: hard to be light.” G. K. Chesterton
- “A man’s first care should be to avoid the reproaches of his own heart.” Joseph Addison
- “For the love of God and my Sisters (so charitable toward me) I take care to appear happy and especially to be so.” St. Therese
- “Best is good. Better is best.” Lisa Grunwald
- “All severity that does not tend to increase good, or prevent evil, is idle.” Samuel Johnson
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- “Order is Heaven’s first law.” Alexander Pope
- “How slight and insignificant is the thing which casts down or restores a mind greedy for praise.” Horace
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like this . much.But does not work at all in my girl's case, who I lost because of frauds and lies and some teenager 'LIKED' insentives.Any ways life is too short to love where is the time to hate? yet people always busy to hate.T hanks for this project.As i always write really worth reading as my freinds from the dame background who are reputed writers and journalists , but here lost as a mother and keeping things within the limited area which is my sorrowful abondened nights and diaries and eyes which bring tears to shower me with love.So love is love where ever you get from, and nothing in life except it.Have a great day.
Posted by: Shamman Afroz | January 15, 2009 at 12:47 PM