Abandon Your Self-Control
Self-control, in this context, presents a challenge in relationships, because some people are more comfortable indulging in moderation, while others do better when they give up something altogether. There’s no one right way, so it’s helpful to figure out what works for you, follow it, and allow others to follow the way that’s right for them (even if it seems wrong to you!).
Which approach works better for you? Moderation or cold turkey? How about the people around you?
We can all learn from each other, so please post your experiences with the resolution in the comments section below.