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Secret of Adulthood: Do Nothing In Excess, Not Even Moderation.

Further Secrets of Adulthood:   Of course, what is excessive, and what is moderation, is not always easy to determine. I wrote about the lure of the idea of “moderation” a few weeks ago. As an Abstainer and an Upholder, I have to work to ensure that I keep a moderate amount of excess in my life. How about you?


Back by Popular Demand: Are You an Abstainer or a Moderator?

Every Wednesday is Tip Day,  or Quiz Day. This Wednesday: Quiz–Are you an abstainer or a moderator? For the last week and a half, I’ve been traveling on my book tour for Happier at Home. I love getting the chance to talk to so many people about happiness. When I gave my talks, the issue of abstainers and moderators came …


Be Wary of the Goal of “Moderation,” Plus a Cocktail-Party Trick.

Assay: I’ve been thinking a lot about moderation lately. I’m an abstainer, so moderation is often tough for me (are you an abstainer or a moderator?), but I certainly hear people talk about their striving for moderation, and I strive for moderation in many areas of my life. But while moderation is often a helpful goal, it can also be …