My Experiments in the Practice of Everyday Life

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How Will You Make Your Own Summer? I Plan To Read for Pleasure.

Yesterday was the last day of school for my two daughters. They wore special outfits, I took pictures, lots of excitement. The last day of school is always bittersweet to me; it’s fun to head into the summer, but it’s always a little sad that another year is over. I’m always reminded that “The days are long, but the years …


“Have You Ever Thought That Your Real Life Hasn’t Begun Yet?”

One day, toward the end of a conversation I was having with the painter David Salle in his studio, on White Street, he looked at me and said, “Has this every happened to you? Have you ever thought that your real life hasn’t begun yet?” “I think I know what you mean.” “You know–soon. Soon you’ll start your real life.” …


Are You a Marathoner, a Sprinter, a Procrastinator? Weigh In.

A few weeks ago, I wrote a post, Are you a tortoise or a hare about work? It was about the question of whether you’d prefer to work fewer hours over more days, or more hours over fewer days. I’ve been thinking more about this distinction. First point: I’m re-naming these categories “marathoners and sprinters.” A larger point: one reason …


Don’t Assume That Everything Is So Different These Days.

I’m a fanatical reader of children’s literature, and one of my favorite authors is Laura Ingalls Wilder. In fact, Happier at Home’s conclusion–which I think, in all modesty, is one of the best things I’ve ever written in my entire life–centers on the last few sentences from Little House in the Big Woods. A thoughtful reader suggested that I might …


Would You Rather Be 10 Minutes Late or 10 Minutes Early?

Would you rather be ten minutes late, or ten minutes early? I asked this question on my Facebook Page, and found the answers fascinating. I would much prefer to be ten minutes early–and in fact, I usually am. My husband is the same way, which is a major contributor to the harmony of our relationship. What time to leave for …