Ta-da! Here’s the one-minute video for my new book, Happier at Home, on “Ten ways to be happier at home.” Some of the “ways” are serious; some are a bit goofy.

Thanks so much to Chris Gelles who created it.

What do you think? What strategies would you add?

If seeing this book trailer made you think, “Goodness, Gretchen, I want to pre-order Happier at Home right this minute,” then here are the links you need! Pre-orders are a big help to me, so thanks for pre-ordering.

If you want to know more about the book, you can…

read about it;

listen to an excerpt from the audio-book;

sample an excerpt from the chapter on “Time.”

For the weekly videos, I now tell a story. I’ve realized that for me, and I think for many people, a story is what holds my attention and makes a point most powerfully.

This week’s story: Get a hold of yourself, Meredith.

 

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Do you have any catch-phrases or mantras that work for you?

I’m still puzzled by why I’ve remembered this one for so many years! It reminds me of how Miss Anning rallies herself by repeating “On, Stanley, on” in Virginia Woolf’s short story, “Together and Apart.”

[She said] to herself: ‘On, Stanley, on’–which was a watchword of hers, a secret spur, or scourge such as middle-aged people often make to flagellate some inveterate vice, hers being a deplorable timidity, or rather indolence, for it was not so much that she lacked courage, but lacked energy…

If you want to read more along these lines, check out…

5 myths about fighting the blues.

Do you love paradoxes? Embrace happiness paradoxes.

Find your own koan.

You can also read more about this in Happier at Home, chapter six.

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For the weekly videos, I now tell a story. I’ve realized that for me, and I think for many people, a story is what holds my attention and makes a point most powerfully.

This week’s story: The things that go wrong often make the best memories.

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Have you ever had something go very wrong–which then turned into a great memory?

If you want to read more along these lines, check out…

Eight excellent tips for living that my parents gave me.

Sometimes flawed can be more perfect than perfection.

Further Secrets of Adulthood.

You can also read more about this in Happier at Home, chapter 10.

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For the weekly videos, I now tell a story. I’ve realized that for me, and I think for many people, a story is what holds my attention and makes a point most powerfully.

This week’s story: Now I’m free from French fries. It relates to one of my favorite subjects: the abstainer/moderator split.

 

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If you want to read more along these lines, check out…

Want to be free from French fries? Or, why abstaining may be easier than you think.

Are you an Abstainer or a Moderator?

Trying to resist holiday temptations? 7 tips for abstainers and moderators.

You can also read more about this in Happier at Home, chapter six.

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For the weekly videos, I now tell a story. I’ve realized that for me, and I think for many people, a story is what holds my attention and makes a point most powerfully.

This week’s story: The story of Mary and Martha.

 

If you’d like to read the story as told in the King James Bible, here it is, from  Luke 10:38-42:

Now it came to pass, as they went, that he entered into a certain village: and a certain woman named Martha received him into her house.

And she had a sister called Mary, which also sat at Jesus’ feet, and heard his word.

But Martha was cumbered about much serving, and came to him, and said, Lord, dost thou not care that my sister hath left me to serve alone? bid her therefore that she help me.

And Jesus answered and said unto her, Martha, Martha, thou art careful and troubled about many things:

But one thing is needful: and Mary hath chosen that good part, which shall not be taken away from her.

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I love this story. You?

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Happiness challenge: saying the right thing.

First things first.

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For the weekly videos, I now tell a story. I’ve realized that for me, and I think for many people, a story is what holds my attention and makes a point most powerfully.

This week’s story: We’ve all done it.

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Have you had this experience–when someone says just the right thing in a difficult situation? I have a lot of trouble finding the right words, and feel so gratified when I hear someone get it right.

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Happiness challenge: Saying the right thing.

Speaking of saying the right thing, here are three situations that have me stumped.

8 tips for finding the right thing to say in a difficult situation.

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